Cheating, smssex...


by Thom Watson

Question by lil'sammy: sms-sex... cheating?

we met on the 5th may... started going out on the 13th...

on the 13th of june, we celebrated being together for a month.
i guess that shows we were boy/girl friend.

on the 28th of june,
he had sms-sex with a chick who's number isn't saved.
(so i didn't get her name)

Today, 8th september,
I found those smses.

OK, DISREGARD the fact that i went tru his messages.
I've NEVER gone tru a boyfriend's personals before,
but while we were messing around with each other's mobile,
one thing led to another and i found them.

IM SORRY I WENT TRU HIS THINGS. I FEEL GUILTY AS HELL. which is probably why im not feeling crushed, as i probably shud... the guilt is numbing the pain.

But seriously,
He had sms-sex with a chick on the 28th june...
It was all decriptive and etc.
I've also seen sms-es from her yesterday.
Which means they're still in touch.

Is he cheating?
And mind you,
on the 28th june, I'd consider us being pretty close already.
What do I do now?
i think its more like he trusted that i wouldnt look in his inbox. :( IM SORRY... im the bad guy who invaded privacy!

i wish i could take the moment back... but the fact is, i did find something... and now i dont know what to do about it.




Best answer:

Answer by iunona_33
Why don't you talk to him? After all he gave you his mobile...maybe his intention was to let you see those sms-es. You should openly talk to him about this.

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